I’m a Reformed Yeller. Here’s How I Get My Kids To Listen Without Losing My Sh*t.

Sarah Cottrell
7 min readMay 7, 2021

A few months ago, I wrote this piece on what science says about parents who yell. It was directly inspired by my utter frustration with my children because no matter what I tried to do to get them to listen to me, our communication would inevitably devolve into a yelling match over screentime or chores.

Yelling at my kids doesn’t feel good, and it has never solved any problems, so why was that my default method of parenting? And if science was telling me that yelling is considered as harmful…

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Sarah Cottrell

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